{"id":2219,"date":"2024-07-20T12:15:31","date_gmt":"2024-07-20T12:15:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/just-wanted.com\/?page_id=2219"},"modified":"2024-09-20T22:55:09","modified_gmt":"2024-09-20T22:55:09","slug":"diy-funerals","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/just-wanted.com\/index.php\/diy-funerals\/","title":{"rendered":"DIY Funerals"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"2219\" class=\"elementor elementor-2219\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2f78a43 elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-top elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2f78a43\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-31e19bb9\" data-id=\"31e19bb9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-410f8119 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"410f8119\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79e413d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"79e413d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Do It Yourself<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-245ae964 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"245ae964\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3caea304 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget-tablet__width-initial elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3caea304\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">funerals<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5f0e7b88 elementor-align-center elementor-widget__width-inherit elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"5f0e7b88\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-sm\" href=\"https:\/\/just-wanted.com\/index.php\/contact\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Contact<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-59d17bc9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"59d17bc9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Everybody reacts differently to loss.<\/p><p><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; background-color: transparent;\">&nbsp;<\/span><br><\/p>\n<p>For many, the emotional knot is too tight to deal with practical arrangements, and that is why a funeral director can be a blessing.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I suspect I&#8217;m one of those people who would want to undertake practical tasks myself &#8211; keeping my beloved dead close to me, where I can wash, dress, care for, be gentle with, and gradually say goodbye to their body. I wonder if undertaking these tasks is an important part of life and love and grief &#8211; whether many people might benefit from this way of expressing a last duty of care.<\/p>\n<p>It would not have been so unusual a century ago, but it is now almost unheard of in western culture.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0); font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0); font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">I currently have little practical experience of caring for the dead at home, but I am willing and eager to learn, to assist and support anyone who wishes to take this path.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0); font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0); font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">I have researched some interesting and useful websites that might also be useful for you &#8211; particularly those below&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0); font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">(<\/span><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0); font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">do not let some of the complexities described put you off):<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0); font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0);\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodfuneralguide.co.uk\/looking-after-the-body-of-a-person-who-has-died\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.goodfuneralguide.co.uk\/looking-after-the-body-of-a-person-who-has-died\/<\/a><br>\n<\/span><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.virtualhospice.ca\/en_US\/Main+Site+Navigation\/Home\/Topics\/Topics\/Final+Days\/Care+of+the+Body+After+Death.aspx#:~:text=Clean%20the%20body%20using%20a,petals%20to%20your%20rinse%20water.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.virtualhospice.ca<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.simplicity.co.uk\/advice\/diy-funerals\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.simplicity.co.uk\/advice\/diy-funerals<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0); font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">Clearly, prior warning of a death of a loved one makes a Do It Yourself funeral much easier to prepare for. There are numerous practical items and considerations to take into account. For caring tasks such as washing and dressing, time is of the essence.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0);\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0);\">Should the loss be sudden, unexpected or in hospital, there are still ways that you can ensure your loved one is returned to your care and tended in a way you would want. For example, talking to hospital staff about assisting with washing and dressing your loved one is an important immediate first step.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0); font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0); font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">If this is something you would be interested in exploring, please do not hestitate to contact me. I will certainly try to assist in any way I can and might have some suggestions that could help. Don&#8217;t wait for a death, prepare now.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0); font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0);\">As with most of Just Wanted&#8217;s offers, w<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 1rem; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0);\">ith this option I ask you to pay whatever you feel you can \/ want to afterwards. I\u2019m not solely in this for money \u2013 but for purpose and connection. It is my&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; font-family: Roboto; font-size: 13pt; background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0);\">privilege&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 1rem; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0);\">to be involved. I would hope to cover any t<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 1rem; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0);\">ravel&nbsp; \/ overnight stay costs as a minimum &#8211; it is possible there will be none.<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 1rem; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0);\"> Alternatively I can offer a simple flat fee quotation based upon our agreed time requirements, if you prefer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-size: 1rem; font-weight: inherit; background-color: rgba(150, 65, 65, 0);\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do It Yourself funerals Contact Everybody reacts differently to loss. &nbsp; For many, the emotional knot is too tight to deal with practical arrangements, and that is why a funeral director can be a blessing. &nbsp; 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