Fly on the Wall Funerals

Be part of a surprising new gift experience. Fly on the Wall funerals are possibly one of Just Wanted’s most enjoyable and rewarding provisions.

How often have you wondered, imagined and disussed what it would be like at your funeral?  Now you can find out.

Commision one for yourself or as a gift for a loved one – the outcome can be as simple or as elaborate as you want.

In short, I follow the same process as I would for the Funeral Celebrant option, speaking with friends and family members, to get a flavour of their thoughts, feelings, memories and stories about the person (the ‘Fly’) for whom the funeral is for. 

Often done over an entire evening, I would usually prefer to meet in person, at your home or other convenient location. Only one rule applies – the ‘Fly’ must be absent from this meeting.

The end result can be as simple as a written tribute, a complete written funeral script, or for the completist – an entire enacted “funeral” service, but with the ‘Fly’ present on the wall.

Macabre for some, hugely rewarding and loving for others –  this option gives you the chance to say the things you want to say, or to see the way you are seen, to know the difference you have made in the world. For some, loss of a loved one might be imminent, and for others hopefully not. However, the experience will always be tactfully and sensitively approached, and according to your lead, it can also be a fun and enjoyable event for friends and family to get together and talk.

You decide.

With this option I ask you to pay whatever you feel you can / want to afterwards. I’m not solely in this for money – but for purpose and connection. It is my privilege to be involved. I would hope to cover any travel  / overnight stay costs as a minimum. Alternatively I can offer a simple flat fee quotation based upon our agreed time requirements, if you prefer.